Take This Lollipop- A Chilling Look at Cyber Stalking

We all know that it’s possible, but we just never believe that it will happen to us- cyber stalking. Thanks to the creators of the website Take This Lollipop, anyone can get a chilling glimpse into what it is like to be stalked through social media.

With your permission, the website will use your Facebook information (which the disclaimer states will NOT be saved or used for any other reason) to let you see yourself through the eyes of a crazed cyber stalker. The stalker is played-very convincingly- by an actor. The man looks like someone we would all avoid passing too close to on the street.

And he’s obsessed with you.

In the short film, you’ll see this man leering at your Facebook profile, scrolling through all of your photos, and reading your posts. This is a lot like a PSA, but leaves you with a very unsettling feeling. Parents, it just may be worth it to have your child watch this if they are using social media.

  • Tips on Protecting Yourself From Online Stalkers
  • Make your passwords more difficult to guess. If it’s a word in the dictionary, someone with the patience is going to figure it out. Avoid anything too obvious, like your birth date, mother’s maiden name, etc.
  • ŸAlways log out when you’re done on a social media site. Use different user names and passwords for each website that you log into.
  • Even if your laptop never leaves your home or office, act like it can be stolen at any time. Enable the password prompt to pop up as soon as you open it for the day and any time it goes to “sleep.” Make sure it is closed when you are done with it.
  • ŸIt may surprise you to know that someone can access your webcam without you knowing it! If you have a built-in webcam on your laptop, you can cover the lens with a small piece of tape. When you’re not using your stand-alone webcam, turn it so that it’s facing a wall. This will keep those prying eyes from seeing what’s going on inside your home.

Do you have any tips you’d like to add? Please share!

 

join the conversation

*


*